sbst275 SG This sort of things hard to say one hor Like my darling, last time say 'dun want', now mum of 2 le
elindra SG The elements and stars are not in line for me to have kids yet We're too poor to have another mouth to feed Need more money first.
elindra SG See the garberment package handouts all go to pay bills only. Not enough funds for my retirement yet too
sbst275 SG For me, I'm worried I have lots of savings now cos of free time see share make money, but dunno when the monsters grows up and need more time with them
elindra SG I have savings but not enough. Haha the problem with planning is that when you do your timeline and calculations you think twice about having kids. I think the government should somehow try to erase 'Family Planning' out coz ppl like me calculate too much one see the $$$ figure than dun want liao
sbst275 SG Actually have 1, the folks just have to be flexible Last time weekly see movie, now cos of take care of him or her, but save that $50 still I'm expecting $250K to fork out for each kid when they go to sch up till uni... I see where can go
udontknowme SG wheee...i'll never become a parent. dont even want to get married. too many horror stories ...
elindra SG Someone told me if you want to have kids, don't think so much We're not ready la Like my freedom so much now Anyway I still have time
Kan_i SG now i am sure that whom ever said that was probably talking about conception? and not raising a child
av98m SG Its not just the $$$, though that is very important. Everyday go home from work tired as hell liao. The thought of raising kids on top of that is very tiring indeed. It's not like in the old days when its possible to survive as a single income family. Nowadays both husband and wife have to work. and long hours too. How to do a proper job of raising children this way? Leaving kids with grandparents is to me a bad idea because I'm sure they have far better things to do than to raise another set of children all over again.
av98m SG No Mrs AV too.....(I guess the only women crazy enough to want to put their arms around me are in straightjackets)
I see
where can go
